The rare beauty lip oil started as a lip version of the Soft Pinch blush, and the shade names are half the charm. Here are the Soft Pinch shades I would pick, the rest of the Rare Beauty lip lineup, and tinted oils from other brands.
Rare Beauty Lip Oil: Soft Pinch Shades and Tinted Oils to Pair

Rare Beauty arrived on September 3, 2020, and from the first product sold, one percent of everything the brand sold went to the Rare Impact Fund, which Selena Gomez set up to widen access to mental health resources. The brand did not add a lip oil until March 30, 2023, when Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil came out in eight shades. Gomez told ELLE it was made to be a lip counterpart to the Soft Pinch Liquid Blush, and her team spent two years developing it. So the rare beauty lip oil is really a blush idea moved to the mouth.
The formula is a gel-to-oil that starts glossy and leaves lips tinted, and Rare Beauty says it stays comfortable and never sticky. Jojoba and sunflower seed oil are the highlighted ingredients. The shade names are words like Hope and Joy, and the color notes are easy to compare.
For pinks, Happy is a cool pink and Serenity is a warm rose. Wonder is a rose mauve and Hope is a nude mauve, my pick for a first bottle. Joy is a muted peach, Affection is a muted berry, and for browns there is Delight in rose brown and Honesty in nude brown.
A simple test: swipe one layer over bare lips, look at it in daylight, then add a second only if you want more. The instructions say to add layers as desired, and it does build. If you want a sharper edge, line first with the Kind Words Matte Lip Liner.

Rare Beauty Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil shades

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Serenity
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Affection
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Happy
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Joy
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Delight
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Hope
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Wonder
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil Stain in Honesty
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez
Beyond the oil: sticks, gloss and a balm
Rare Beauty has more lip products around the oil, and the Soft Pinch Lip Oil Stick is the easiest to carry. It is a three-in-one that treats like an oil, shines like a gloss and gives buildable color, with apple seed oil and comfortable wear for up to 12 hours. Wish is a bright coral, Dream is a mauve, Muse is a nude beige and Embrace is a warm brown. Muse is the one I would hand to someone who says they never wear color.
The Positive Light Luminizing Lip Gloss is a different mood. It is nonsticky, with prismatic shimmer and glass-like shine. Dazzle is a sheer blue with multicolored shimmer, and Beam is a peachy coral with gold and pink pearl. Layer either over a stick for sparkle.
The Find Comfort Lip Butter Balm in Friendly is a muted caramel with a subtle vanilla scent, and it works as a daytime balm or an overnight mask. Rare Beauty suggests tracing your Cupid's bow with the rounded tip.
Kind Words Lip Liner in Gifted is a deep reddish brown, and Rare Beauty says it is waterproof and smudge- and transfer-proof. Rare Beauty recommends filling in with a Soft Pinch Lip Oil Stick, so Embrace over Gifted is a natural match.
What I would skip: the shimmer gloss on bare lips if you want a quiet look. It is made to be seen, so use it as the top layer on purpose.
More Rare Beauty lip

Soft Pinch Lip Oil Stick in Wish
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Lip Oil Stick in Dream
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Lip Oil Stick in Muse
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Soft Pinch Lip Oil Stick in Embrace
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Positive Light Luminizing Lip Gloss in Dazzle
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Positive Light Luminizing Lip Gloss in Beam
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Find Comfort Lip Butter Balm + Overnight Mask with Hyaluronic Acid Butter in Friendly
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Kind Words Lip Liner in Gifted
Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez
Tinted lip oils from other brands
Other brands make a tinted lip oil, and they land in different places. Clarins Lip Comfort Hydrating Oil in 01 Honey is clear, with sweetbriar rose, jojoba and hazelnut and a plush applicator. Clarins suggests wearing it before bed, after you remove makeup. MERIT Shade Slick in Marrakech is a soft peach with a high-shine finish, and Summer Fridays Dream Lip Oil in Blush Dreams is a sheer blush made with nine oils. Gisou Honey Infused Hydrating Lip Oil in Cherry Chocolate uses Mirsalehi honey and bee garden oils.
For a little more edge, MILK MAKEUP KUSH in Green Dragon is sage and peppermint with a clear tint, and it uses hemp seed oil. Haus Labs PhD Hybrid Tinted Lip Oil in Tint is a sheer pink with vegan collagen and prickly pear oil. NARS Afterglow in 500 Faraway is an apricot tea shade, and BOB BEAUTE The Oil in Gloss in Soft Pink is a vegan formula with a sheer, buildable tint.
A layering idea: a Rare Beauty Soft Pinch oil in Delight underneath, then a clear oil like the Clarins on top for a shine that does not change the color.
What I would skip: layering the KUSH in Green Dragon over another gloss. It is meant to be a sheer, clear-tinted oil on its own, so let it be the only shine.
Tinted lip oils from other brands

Lip Comfort Hydrating Oil in 01 Honey
Clarins

Shade Slick Hydrating Tinted Lip Oil in Marrakech
MERIT

Dream Lip Oil for Moisturizing Sheer Coverage in Blush Dreams
Summer Fridays

Honey Infused Hydrating Lip Oil in Cherry Chocolate
Gisou

KUSH Hydrating Sheer Lip Oil in Green Dragon
MILK MAKEUP

PhD Hybrid Hydrating Tinted Lip Oil
Haus Labs

Afterglow Sheer Hydrating Lip Oil in 500 Faraway
NARS

The Oil in Gloss in SOFT PINK
BOB BEAUTE
Finding your shade
Choose the finish before the shade. If you want a light stain, start with Soft Pinch oil. If you want more color in one swipe, use the Lip Oil Stick. If you want shine you can see from across a room, use a Positive Light gloss or a clear oil from the last grid.
For shade, look at your favorite blush. Gomez says the oils were made to complement the blush shades, so a warm blush goes with Serenity or Joy and a cooler one with Happy or Wonder. Keep a balm like Friendly for nights, and save the oil for daytime color.






